Have any of you guys ever experienced this awkward moment when you’re conflicted to telling the person you’re dating that you’re a blogger? Regardless if you’re a lifestyle, beauty, photography blogger… the fact that you just own a blog.
This blog is probably the only social media outlet that I don’t share with people I know in real life (and if you’ve managed to stumble across it, that’s fine). I don’t care if the person I’m dating has access to my Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, YouTube, etc.
But when it comes to blogging… I don’t know, I like to keep it to myself.
Not because I trash talk people, but in a sense that everything here is personal to me. I share these with people that don’t know me personally, but still know me virtually… does that make sense?
But of course, if I can’t tell “him”/”her”, what’s the point of blogging it?
I don’t know.. I just want to document my thoughts and life!
So, I’ve been seeing this guy, ‘D’ for about… 3-4 weeks? He makes me happy :3
I sometimes have this paranoia that he somehow stumbled across my blog… how, I don’t know since this link is removed off every social media profile.
And compared to me hanging out with all my other friends, whenever I hang out with D. I feel super shy with my camera… like I can’t “camwhore”, take scenery photos, take foodies, and random photos because he’d ask why I take so many photos! Actually, he did mentioned I take like a billion photos…
With my other friends, I snap away and they don’t care. I think they know I’m into social medias (and some knows I blog.. but that’s besides the point). With D, I just feel so shy because I have this fear of judgement that he’ll judge me based on this blog.
Have you bloggers felt.. shy/nervous/afraid/etc. of your date finding you have a blog?
And that you document a lot of daily life and take photos like crazy?
If so, how did you come around it?