I remember when I wrote “My Luck in Men” a few years ago and it was a fun and popular post. The other day, I was going through my Spotify and realized how certain songs reminds me of a certain guy.
And that is how this post came to be. Here’s the most accurate song to describe either the guy or the relationship itself. It won’t be for all the guys because there are some that I legit didn’t have a song for.
I’ll provide a short description to why these songs resonate with a relationship but if you guys are more curious, check out the My Luck in Men post!
Stuttering by Fefe Dobson for “The High School Sweetheart”
“There’s a whole lotta things that I will forgive but I just can’t take a liar /
Yeah you’re stuttering”
The Highschool Sweetheart sexted his first girlfriend and gave me a lot of BS lies like “she hacked into my Facebook”. Towards the end of the relationship, I also walked in on them together watching a Harry Potter film.
Everybody Knows by dUSTIN tAVELLA for “The Heartbreaker”
“He kisses you but he don’t mean it / Your boyfriend is a douchebag and everybody knows”
I remember when my friends and I went out for some wings and drinks and I told The Heartbreaker that I was going to meet up with him and his friends later (we were in the same restaurant but different tables). But plans changed and I left the restaurant with my friends temporarily. I can’t recall what exactly happened but I remember we ended up in Tim Horton’s and he was basically scolding me. We left the restaurant and my friends rolled their eyes. Later on, when this song shuffled on, the same friends told me that The Heartbreaker was a douchebag, haha.
Kiss Me Slowly by Parachute for “The Irish Lad”
“I can see you there with the city lights, fourteenth floor, pale blue eyes. Hold my breath as you’re moving in, taste your lips and feel your skin. When the time comes, baby don’t run, just kiss me slowly.”
It’s the pale blue eyes that caught me.
Best Thing I Never Had by Beyonce for “The Cheater”
“So when I think of the time that I almost loved you, you showed your ass and I, I saw the real you. Thank God you blew it, I thank God I dodged a bullet / I wanted you bad, I’m so through with that ‘Cause honestly you turned out to be the best thing I never had”
I was the side chick for The Cheater. After our short courting ended, I took a month long vacation to China and came back home. Desperate for a job, I returned to my old gym and that’s where I met Dan. I guess, without The Cheater, there would’ve been a high chance of me not returning to the gym and seeking employment elsewhere.
Nothing’s Gonna Stop us Now by Starship for Dan
“Looking in your eyes I see a paradise, this world that I’ve found is too good to be true. Standing here beside you, want so much to give you this love in my heart that I’m feeling for you / I’m so glad I found you, I’m not gonna lose you, thatever it takes I will stay here with you. Take it to the good times, see it through the bad times”
There are a billion love songs that I can choose for Dan but this song by Starship really stood out for me. Whenever it comes on, my first instinct is to smile and think of Dan. We’ve been through some rough patches and even took a break but I absolutely love this guy to death. Moving to Australia, I felt like I could do anything with him by my side.
Any of you guys have that one song that describes a relationship perfectly? Good or bad, let me know!
